After sitting in a training course for the second time on how to defuse volitile situations, I have been thinking more about how people process information.  You have people that are methodical in their analysis of information and people that are reactionary.  It is interesting to see how many people think that by avoiding confrontation that they are being walked over.  Nobody likes to be taken advantage of.  Do you? 


When reality is based on the viewers perception it's no wonder we have so many problems.  Escalation happens very quickly as people try to protect their honour.  That guy that cut you off...may not have seen you, despite his best efforts to look.  That person that waited too long at the green light might be taking time to put down their coffee.  While some may just be self centred egotists.  Firstly you need to consider, this may not have been intentional, secondly if no harm was done should this really ruin your day,  you're not likey to affect the chances of others repeating these actions.  What is the cost to you for reacting?


Always know before acting. It is a simple principle to follow.  It applies to every aspect of life.  So why wouldn't you consider accessibility in your home.  Simply by aging, our mobility is restricted.  Things as unnoticable as floor type changes, could be a hazard to an aging person, but is also something that is easily and relatively inexpensive to change.  This can be considered under expected home maintainance.  That 26" door however in that century home could completely deny you access to the bathroom and be impossible to change based on the homes layout.


If you let emotion or react to loving that home with out  weighing the information.  Maybe a family member is already in a wheel chair.  You probably wouldn't purchase the house without a home inspection, just consider there may be more factors.  If you buy using emotion not thought, you may have no choice but to relocate in the future, and after 25 years... that might be hard to do.